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Podcaster Leads Movement to Normalize Relationships Between Cis Men and Trans Women

Phaylen Fairchild
11 min readOct 20, 2021

With the transgender community under constant assault from politicians, preachers and aggressive media, there has been little space provided to explore the positive, healthy relationships that are flourishing. Chris Patterson, host of the “Men Like Us” podcast wants to change that.

Launched last year across social media and podcasting platforms, Patterson acknowledges that the transgender community is typically so immersed in survival mode that little time has been afforded to have important conversations about establishing strong partnerships between men and transgender women. The topic of love when it comes to adult relationships between men and transgender women is still considered largely taboo. Often our very identities as LGBTQ+ individuals are so mired in politicizing by the upper echelons of society that it is easy for bystanders to forget we are also human beings who deserve more than just an ally, but to be seen and valued for the myriad of experiences ensconced in the human condition that cis people have, just without the resistance or persecution.

But the conversation behind the walls of the community with respect to men who openly date transgender women is still deeply controversial and divisive- even the term, “Trans amorous,” is considered by some to be…

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Phaylen Fairchild
Phaylen Fairchild

Written by Phaylen Fairchild

Actor, Filmmaker, LGBTQ+ & Women’s Rights Activist All work copyright phaylens@gmail.com

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